When I'm not editing Offbeat Mama, I work as a wedding and lifestyle photographer as one half of White Rabbit Studios, with my friend and biz partner Ashley. Something I have learned in this field is that family portrait sessions can be many things: unbelievably perfect ways to document where you are in your life as a family, awesome gifts for family members and grand-parents, and fun. They can also be chocked-full of stress, nervous energy, and have more than once been the source for many a family squabble–or even all out fight.

You know what's cute about this photo? The baby! You know what's awesome about this photo? The drool all over his shirt. Just roll with it. Photo by Huntsville lifestyle and wedding photographers White Rabbit Studios.

It makes sense: most of the time, you've set up the session weeks, if not months, in advance. You've paid a hefty deposit, sitting fee, and possibly a way-too-gigantic print credit–there's quite a bit on the line. In your ideal photo world, your family looks exactly how you see them. They all smile at the right times, laugh at others, and everyone gets along and is in a great world. In reality…this doesn't always exactly pan out.

Here are a few tips for what to ask and what to keep in mind during your session. It is by no means all inclusive, and I'd love to hear from other parents who have weathered the family portrait session storm.

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